Even though our holidays for this year are long gone, Alhamdulillah, it's hard not to notice the onslaught of print advertizing for the winter season. It's hard not to see all the adds and think upon turning each page, Abdullah would love that! It's even harder for their grandparents who frequently update me on the toys they "almost bought."
I know many may wonder how the kiddos get in enough "play" without toys being sent in the mail on a steady stream. Many children, such as Abdullah and KC, have taken a liking to objects that may be often overlooked by the adult public, but whose value as a play thing should not be underestimated. In order to facilitate a better understanding of the many overlooked "toys" available for free or cheap, I've created the following list:
Top 10 Things Better Than Toys
10.
Stick

Let's start with the obvious. Known to Abdullah as "sem" (I think, I can't really make out this word, but I know it means he's about to pick up yet another stick), the stick offers a creative child a host of options for imaginative play. Much to my mother's chagrin, in 2008, the National Toy Hall of Fame bypassed Furby 3.0 and the PS3 to instead recognize the humble stick's contribution to play history.
9.
Box

This 2005 National Toy Hall of Fame inductee has been a parents' foil for ages. Even though kids obviousl prefer box play, parents still insist on over-riding their children's wishes by filling boxes with "toys." For Abdullah, boxes come in two types, "bop," or a regular, unimpressive box such as a box of toys which only serves as a holding container for something far more entertaining, and "beee bop," or a big box, one which he plans to play with in and of itself, such as a box that he plans to put on his head, rip to shreds, or put on KC's head. KC is already learning the joys of box play, often bypassing the toys which Abdullah assigns her from the toy box and instead choosing to throw herself recklessly into the box. Apparently, she didn't get the memo.
Please see the National Toy Hall of Fame site via the links provided for more information on how to use the above toys in your child's play repertoire.
8. Containers

As you can see, a simple Chinese take out box is the perfect toy for any child. It teaches manners while encouraging children to have fun. Plastic containers with lids may also be used to allow children to practice stacking, opening, and closing. Paper containers however, offer the additional benefit of being ripable, a very desirable quality in children's toys.
7. Clothes

Learning to properly don a frock is an important right of passage for any human. Although I'm not completely clear on how clothes play works, I am sure that clothes must be a toy as both KC and Abdullah tend to burst out in fits or raucous laughter and flailing when I try to dress them.
6. Top and A Sock
This particular toy may not be available in all areas. You may need to substitute other household items, but the uses are endless. In the picture above, Abdullah had just finished practicing his sock saute
flipping and decided that my socks needed a good scrubbing.
5.Dishes

Carrying objects on a dish, emptying the dishwasher, putting dishes in the sink, what a great many skills can be practices with these often misunderstood toys. Thanks to a very thoughtful former student, may Allah reward her, we have a nearly indestructible set of dishes that has survived Abdullah's handling very well over the past year.
4. Laundry

I challenge Fischer Price to even attempt to make a toy which promotes even half of the milestones that can be practiced through doing laundry. You see a pile of dirty clothes and a long day of labor, Abdullah sees a day of action packed play. Color sorting, dryer sheet counting, clothes throwing, button pushing, coin in hole maneuvering, hallway running, and a host of other activities beckon on laundry day. The happiest day of the week.
3. Mail

What is this a picture of? Junk mail you say? No no my friend, far from it! What you actually see is a visual and tactile wonderland. While other kids are looking through the mail to figure out which toy they are going to pester their parents to buy, Abdullah has been enjoying the recent increase in toy filled books which kind strangers have been sending him over the past few weeks. About 6 months ago, Abdullah got his hands on a Rainbow play yard catalogue. The next week was spent flipping through it with wide eyes gesturing and mumbling to me. Perhaps next blog, I'll post a Top 10 Best Reads for Toddlers. Rainbow Play Yards October Specials is definitely on the list. KC also enjoys a good bit of crinkly paper although her hand in mouth instinct has led me to limit the types of mail she's allowed to play with.
2. Self
To some, mostly grandparents, the thought of a child sitting alone is heart wrenching. When Abdullah's play is threatened by lack of toys or naptime, he has learned to keep the party going, as it were, through toe tapping, finger wiggling, bubble blowing, and, as of late, head standing.
1. Sibling
Some kids play with baby dolls. We just cut to the chase and gave Abdullah a baby to play with. KC in turn also seems to have quickly learned that Abdullah is here merely for her amusement and as a means to practice her wrestling moves.
So, now comes the tough question. You see that your house full of toys is useless and there are much more stimulating items for your child to play with. What can you do with the toys? Abdullah enjoys using them for decorations. I call this creation of his "Leopard Plays With a Ball."